结了婚,有了孩子 = 没有了自我?

I have come across a magazine asking a celebrity that after marriage life and with children = don't have yourself.  Actually to me I can feel so ..... cos nowsaday I have friends whom are single and married but no children yet, like try not to go out with us.  Some questions have been popping up in my mind :

• Is it because they want us to have a family day? 
  
• Is it want us to spend more time on our baby? 
  
• Is it too troublesome to bring baby out with us?
• Is it we have done something wrong and you all dun wanna go out with us?

Well now my friends around us whom we always go out with are those married with babies......In fact those long lost sec. friends who contacted us through facebook are all married and with children!  Why I wrote this cos I really can feel that some close friends of mine is like drifting away ....... nothing went wrong just that it drift away like that it seems more like a MSN friend then a very close friend to me .... kinda sad about it cos I don't know what happen .......

Sunday - 7 September 08

                              1st October 08 8.30pm will telecast the 1st episode                      Blessedbaby being interview twice - one by Kym and one by Mark Lee
Reached East Point Mall at 10am and shocked to see so many people around and is Q-ing up to get the number tag so that they could go for the audition round.  Hannah aka blessed baby one of my forum friend was there at 8.45am and her Q is 17.  Q no. 1 was there at 7am!!! OMG!!! I am still in lala land loh.

Heard one of the mediacorp assistant says that is meant for 1st 50 babies seeing no chance cos the Q is up to 150 already and they stop giving out Q number after that we went up to 2nd level to watch the show.  After hearing what Mark Lee explained then we know that they will only give out Q no. 151 and above out when they couldn't find the cutest 50 babies out of the 150 babies.  So we headed to KFC for our brunch and met dearie's NS friend & family they are there for the contest too and they came all the way down from Sembawang!  They have Q number 15 and reached at 8.30am.

When we finished our food and we see that they are still giving out the number we just went to pick one and we are 196!  Q for about 10-15mins ..... they annouce 50 babies is being found hahaha  ..... we are there just to have fun but some are not they are so serious!  A couple still quarrel over this issue on the spot kinda 丢脸 right?  Especially with so many people looking at you!  Dearie say lucky never go also cos if being chosen have to be there till late noon as 3 of us were so tired, we went back home and the 2 of my precious totally KO.  I napped for awhile and off we go to Bedok 85 to have our disc changed and to my in laws place for dinner.

We had an early dinner cos we are going to play Badminton later at 8.30pm thanks to my SIL - Celia for booking of the court.  We have an enjoyable time .... its been years since we play badminton .... the 2 kids were so happy!  We also think is time for us to work out good for health too.  Dearie complaining he is growing BUI again as for me Dr Lee & Dr Heng is nagging me to KIAM BUI.  As for TT ..... she is napping while we are playing and she is really ZHUN we are about to end the game she woke up crying cos she feels warm,  her fan is not working strong enough for her heehee

Saturday - 6 September 08

Woke up to clean up the house cos my part time maid came at 9pm yesterday!  OMG! So I only asked her to clean my toilet and iron the clothes for me and I will vacuum and mop the floor myself.

Bought some ti-bits from motherhood forum so went to collect it before meeting my parents to go my 姑姑 house.  We are bringing over DOM and some chicken essence for my cousin whom have just given birth weeks ago.  And we will be attending her baby shower next week, yet to see my little nephew.

After staying at my 姑姑 house for about 2hours we headed to Ikea Alexander to shop.  We went over to Anchorpoint for an early dinner wanted to go to Mickey Mouse restaurant to eat but I guess my parents won't like it so we had dinner at the food court.

Bought some storage items for the house and bought a children laundry bag can store other stuffs too so I used it to store TT's toys.  Bought one for ourselves too cos mine which is meant for dry clothing is spoilt so I replaced it.

Reached home around 8pm and it started to rain again.... lucky we are a bit earlier again if not will be caught in the rain.  Went to bed quite early and thanks to my dearie whom is always the one throwing rubbish,  washing all the milk bottles,cups, plates, pots that TT & I  used earlier on cos my timing strike 12am  .... I will auto go to bed and KO.

Wednesday - 3 Sept 08

Went for my usual check up today ..... Dr Lee ask me when will I want No. 2 again ..... *faintz*  everybody is asking me the same question!  To be frank I might want to have a Baby Cow but ..... I feel like changing job ..... if I am preggie I can't look for a new one ... *Sigh* Dilemma ...... must think think think ..............

Dr Lee is nagging at me hahahaha ask me to 减肥 cos he say what if you get preggie again you will put on lotsa weight!  I told him I hope if 2nd pregnancy will be as smooth as 1st one and i only put on about 5kg for the whole pregnancy then it won't be a problem.  He smiled to me .....and say ya that will be good!

As usual he draw my blood and will let me know the results in 2 days time will be seeing him again in 8 weeks times!  When I go collect my medicine ..... the Clinic Assistant asked me "you came alone ah where is your baby?"  They always see me bringing TT but today I came alone cos I hitched a ride from my MIL when she came to fetch TT.  A nurse whom dispense medicine to me asked me too where is my baby ..... everyone here know you and your baby!

Pray Hard that my thyroid is good so that I need not change my medicine cos ever since I gave birth to TT sometimes I will forget to take it.

Tuesday - 2 Sept 08

Ever since my nephew incident and my SIL told me MUST buy a good thermometer to put at home.  So I have been searching it ... in fact before I give birth to TT thermometer is always on my mind. 

We have one which is those normal kind ... is easy for adults but not for babies kekekek if I don't have one I can't track my O-day kekeke.

Happens that Gwen msn me and ask me is terraillon this brand good ..... eh ... i am not very good at it .... so I can't comment by reading the specification I find it not bad and is on SM spree so I decided to get it.  It cost $79 - is a 3 in 1 infrared thermometer for forehead, ear,  ambient room and clock reading.  So I got Dearie to self collect at Yio Chu Kang quite a good deal!

Beside thermometer they have other products too click here to see the products that they carry.  I think I remember seeing this at Taka Baby Fair before ..... can't really remember ..... I feel that my memory fails me more after I gave birth!

i woke up this morning and found TT sharing the same pillow as me!  Can't imagine she actually sleep really close to me ..... hahaha and she is so 舒服 lying on my pillow ......both of us laugh when we woke up to wash up!

Monday - 1 September 08

My MIL told me she accidentally "kiap" TT cos she didn't know how to use the new pacifier clip that we got for her.  My MIL was so scare and heart pain for hurting TT ...... is ok mum .... kekeke .... TT will know you are not on purpose.

When TT came back home everyday evening ...... and when I open the door I always see her big smile to me it really melt my heart!

She is getting more and more active I think I don't have so much energy to play with her ..... my Papa praise my MIL for having such good stamina ..... cos TT is very active and need lotsa enegry to look after her.  My Papa says I give him $1500 to look after TT he also don't want ... hahaha cos another one (my nephew) is giving him headache already!

Can't imagine if I have one more baby like TT so active I think i will aged very fast hahahahah .............we are so tired afraid that she will fall I will always place her in teh playpen .... she will play for awhile but not for long she will cry to rescue her out cos she likes to move around.

Now even in playpen we have to be careful of some items that she could reach from inside when she is standing.  She really very adventurous see the above pics she could stand up on her own .....I tried to put her to sleep in the playpen in the end she wake up and play refuse to sleep ..... OMG! 

I have entered TT in MumCentre Pic of the week contest ...... please help me to vote for TT can?  Thanks in advance .....

Click here to go into the page ...... one email per pic hehehe thanks!
 

Sunday - 31 August 08

I have registered TT in a Baby Show at Kembangan CC and our registration time is 9am!  Reached there at around 8.50am .... and we could do the registration .... a bit blur cos I don't what is the programme like. 

So follow blindly what the helpers says ..... went to see a Doctor ...less than 5mins we are out and went back to the hall to wait for results.  Is a long wait cos results will only come out at 12+pm.  Lucky Peiyin joined too and I have friends whom I can talk to while waiting.

Last minute they came up with games for babies .... like crawling games, cat walking, singing ..... well I think is not really organise ..... all the parents crowd around the stage ..... and those babies participating the games their siblings went up the stage as well so the whole place is so chaotic!

And there is one baby even being elbowed by another baby's brother the impact is quite big cos the baby girl is crying non stop for about 20mins!!!  I think the organiser should have more helpers in crowd controlling is quite important especially there is so many babies around the best is the hall is air-conditioned so I enjoyed sitting there and chit chat with my friends.  While chit chatting a flying shoes fly towards me and nearly hit TT ... i so angry and kick away the shoes hahaha it belongs to a small malay boy's ..... called me bad hahah I hack care .... so nottie must teach him a lesson! 

TT never won anything .... but having the goodie bag is good enough hahahah ... lotsa diapers sample given ..... quite worth it.  Is an experience for us hahaha a waiting game .... kekeke   Nice seeing Mr & Mrs Kam at the baby show too ... and of cos their cute little baby - Hao Re .... so cute he played with TT for a while .... hehehe and he loves TT's pacifier hahahah so cute

As for my dearie he is playing basketball with his friends ..... Edwin called me and told me that he couldn't make it cos he need to fly back to Sabah cos Penny is going to give birth soon!!!  OMG!!! is so early ....... is 1 month earlier than EDD .... hope she is doing good ..... pray hard .......

At about 3.51pm Penny called .... she have successfully delivered a healthy baby girl weighing 2.55kg without Epidural cos the person is off today!  Congrats my dearest pal ..... brave mummy natural birth w/o Epi as her 1st one is a C-sect ....... glad to hear that our God-Daughter is doing good although she is out early.